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Happy Birthday Buddy! Today my buddy is officially 365 days old. If you look in the right hand corner of this x-ray you can see my little buddy. I still can remember the day that you decided to enter my body even though I was on some heavy drugs and I slurred my speech. You gave everyone a scare, including me who did not want you impeding on my body. By the way, you are overdue in your rent!!!
I am sorry that you had to enter my body without and food or liquid. No one would let me eat or drink before your arrival and trust me it was not easy at all. I fought with everyone that day, worried that you wouldn’t have the nutrients to survive. However, you turned out OK even though you freak me out at times. Luckily, you haven’t acted up this year and have remained on Santa’s good list but it was a scary year. Don’t ever jiggle inside of me or we will have to have words!
As a new parent, I was clueless what to expect with you inside of me. I did hesitate accepting you as a member of the family. There were many times where I did not know if you were fine or the things that I was feeling was all from that anxiety. I have learned through countless monitoring by your favorite doctor that you haven’t acted up. I am proud of you! I am proud of myself that I have not given up on you and kicked you out of my body. I am starting to adjust to you, even though you mess with my head.
I have heard you speak only once to me in the doctor’s office and I don’t ever want you to hear you speak again even though your beeping did sound romantic, once was enough and honestly my nerves can’t handle it. So, how is it in there? Is there anything that I can do to make you feel more at home? I continue to lose weight, and I am determined to get to my personal goal, so please get use to the grapefruit and celery that you consume each day.
As I continue to live each day, you always remind me of how lucky I truly am to give birth to you. I have learned that many people have one of you inside of them and they are also grateful, but let me tell you, you just simply scare me. Unfortunately, I can not control how my mind decides to think, and I have anxiety attacks and flashbacks. You lucked out and came after everything traumatic had happened. My wife, friends, and family are beyond appreciative of what you have done. You are the center of my life!
Please remember to pay your rent on time, I am going broke. Please watch over me in my bad times and good. Always follow me, if I want you to or not. Please guide me and lead me in the right direction. Oh, and please tell my heart that I have not forgotten about it. I hope by giving it you, you two have bonded well (just watch what you do)!
Happy Birthday Buddy, Happy Birthday!
Happy birthday xxx
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Happy birthday xx as you know I am being born on the 22nd and am nervous. But glad I’m here to celebrate x
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You will do it! Everyone’s recovery time is different. Some people go back to the world within 3 days, I had a traumatic event and it has been hard for me to get back out there. I am always here if you have any questions. Don’t worry the drugs are great!
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Happy Re-Birthday!!! I have enjoyed reading your blog. I sat and read the whole thing in one morning. I am at about a year and a half right now. When I got my ICD I was having an ablation and that is when they discovered I have VT. And basically told me I wasn’t going home with out it. Who was I to argue. It is a big adjustment and I believe takes time to really accept it. Thanks for keeping us updated. =)
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Thanks Deb. It is getting easier each day. I am back on the job market and trying to ease my way back into the world. I can’t believe it has been a year.
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Panic attack n flash backs may take awhile, I still get them after the birth of my son 4 yrs ago or my car accident 7 yrs ago. In due time.
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Yeah I hate them! I had one today and texted my wife if she could come home, knowing she couldn’t. I fell asleep and woke up fine. I just cried. I’m not afraid!
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I know do you have any of those adult coloring books? Or crossword puzzles or word searches to keep your mind off things? Anxiety Bible Verses if your religious?
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I live on adult coloring books LOL so therapeutic.
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Mendelas that’s there names,lol they have a real name
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Oh and silly putty works wonders as well!
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haha put it on newspaper
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I did that when I was a kid. It is a great stress relief as well. My mission is to pop the bubbles I make with it. LOL
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That too lol
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I love you’re blog! I’m glad this first year is behind you. I can’t wait to hear about your follow-on successes.
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Thank you so much! I’m trying. I still have so much more story to tell, just when you think, where else could this go! LOL
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Haha I understand. I can’t wait to hear, er, read all about it. Keep your head up and keep typing.
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Happy Birthday! I’m glad to see that your little friend was kind to you over the past year. Loved the air of humour and hope in this post. I wish you the best, Bruce. Take care!
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You always make my day!
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I am so glad that you are getting back to your usual life. It will take time I guess. I still get flashes of my hospital ride as dreams and wake up all sweaty. It sucks. But life goes on. My cats helped me feel better. How is your cat?
Happy re-birthday 🙂
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A great post Bruce, I really enjoyed reading. Have you tried watercolour painting, you could do murals all over the living room walls 🤔 your wife would love that 😉
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